Brides are free to choose their own wedding minister! Personalize your ceremony and save money by helping your friend or family member to become a legally ordained beach wedding officiant. It’s simple and ordination is free from the Atlantic Marital Ministry. The AMM shares our beliefs of keeping our oceans, beaches, and wildlife safe and clean for a new generation of beach brides to enjoy. A customized Certificate of Ordination is available for only $19.95 and the purchase helps support the Beach Bride Sea Turtle Rescue.
Love, Freedom & Nature
The Atlantic Marital Ministry helps couples with spiritual weddings in a natural setting.
Our simple belief is that we need to protect our planet for future generations to enjoy.
After the COVID 19 pandemic, we realized life is too short to keep talking about change.
We took action and created the Beach Bride Sea Turtle Rescue initiative in 2020.
Years ago we were inspired by our visit to the Te Mana O Te Moana sea turtle clinic.
The plan is to return in 2021 and help care for these beautiful endangered species.
We’ll clean their nesting beaches and help with rehabilitation and habitat restoration.
We’ll film a documentary on sea turtles’ role in the ecosystem and why they need help.
We’re partnering with like-minded businesses and individuals to fight climate change.
The threat is real and the time to act is now. Our products and books help this mission.
Getting Ordained = Saving Turtles
It’s 2020 and pretty much anyone can get legally ordained online in minutes.
It’s not rocket science and it’s legal in most of the states with nice beaches.
Do you need a regal ordination kit & theatrical robes to perform a wedding?
You need to be at least 18 with a confirmed ordination – the rest is up to you.
Ordination through the Atlantic Marital Ministry is completely free of charge.
We ask that you read our brief mission statement and try to help the planet.
The AMM is a federally recognized 501 (c ) religious non- profit organization.
Our DBA is Beach Bride Sea Turtle Rescue – you may see that on receipts.
Rox Beach Weddings helps promote products to raise money for the AMM.
Become an Ordained Minister in 3 Easy Steps
Complete the AMM application for Ministry
Your Certificate of Ordination is proof that you have been ordained to legally officiate marriages in the United States.
Some states require new Ministers to register in their marital database. Marriage License requirements vary by state.
Please confirm the ordination & license policies of the state that the marriage is taking place in prior to the wedding.
Create your Proof of Ordination Certificate
Customize Your Wedding Vows
A Minister or an Officiant?
Becoming a minister is easy. All you need is a piece of paper that says you’re legal. Becoming a polished Officiant is a skill.
My first wedding ceremony was an average performance at best. I was nervous and read right off the paper. Eye contact with the crowd was minimal. About halfway through the ceremony, I caught a glimpse of the audience and noticed something odd. They were all still standing in front of their chairs.
At that moment I realized that I had asked them to “Please rise for the Bride” but forgot to ask them to “Please be seated.” Should I pause the ceremony and ask them to sit? Should I just keep going? Either way, I was going to look like an amateur. I just kept rambling and let them stand. The only thing that saved me from complete ridicule was that I was friends with the bride and groom and the ceremony was short. 2000 weddings later, I’ve improved a bit but there was a definite learning curve.
Beach weddings are unique. Indoor weddings are structured and predictable. There’s a microphone and a podium. The ceremonies are long and half the guests have tuned out five minutes into the service. Beach weddings should be short and sweet. Eight to ten minutes is perfect. A Sand Unity Ceremony may add another five. Throw in a romantic first dance on the beach and the entire affair tops out at 20 minutes. Seems easy, right?
Reading is easy. The Officiant’s role is to take charge of the ceremony the moment they hit the beach. The challenging part of my job occurs prior to the wedding. A typical sunset ceremony looks something like this:
7 PM – Gather Witnesses and Sign the Marriage License
Meet the groomsmen by the archway at for a pre-ceremony rehearsal. It’s likely I’ve never met the groom. In a phone conversation with the bride, we discussed what he’d be wearing so I can easily identify him. They’re supposed to meet me with the marriage license at 7:10 and sign the paperwork before the ceremony. This goes smoothly about half the time. Groomsmen can be quite unpredictable, especially when there’s a bar nearby. If all of the groomsmen are on time, fully dressed, and reasonably sober it’s usually a great day.
7:15 PM – Mini Rehearsal with the Guys
Help lineup the groomsmen and perform a run-through of the ceremony with the groom. Most of his lines are usually of the “repeat after me” variety. The only line the groom usually has to memorize is “I do.” Check to see who has the rings and who will pour which vessel if there is a Sand Unity Ceremony. If they are exchanging their own personal vows, it’s important to ask who’s going first.
7:25 PM Meet the Bride and Line Up the Wedding Party
Meet the bride and whoever is escorting her to the beach. This is usually the first time I’ve met her and the family. We try to find a spot behind a sand dune where she can see the groom but he can’t see her in the dress. If it’s raining I give her the given news first: “You’ve got the beach all to yourself, the sand will be easy to walk on and hopefully we’ll see a rainbow.” Most of the beach brides I meet are polite, happy, and ready to get married. Being on the sand in bare feet and inhaling the aroma of the sea has a calming effect. On the occasions I’ve encountered pre-ceremony drama, it’s usually produced by mothers and mother inlaws who are upset the wedding’s not in their local church.
I begin each encounter with a sincere compliment. Brides are usually beautiful, but they sometimes forget to smile. My most important job as an Officiant is to keep the wedding party smiling and having fun. If it’s raining, my sense of humor is my best tool. Things go wrong. Rings drop in the sand. Key guests get stuck in traffic. The bouquet was left at the hotel. The marriage license is still in Pennsylvania. The more that goes wrong, the smoother you need to be. Your ability to sit positive and keep smiling sets the tone for the entire bridal party.
After the initial meet and greet, I line up the bridesmaids, flower girl, and ring bearer. The little ones are often unpredictable but that’s part of the fun. I find that taking a knee to speak with them produces better results. Bridesmaids with cellphones often tune you out – just try your best and focus on the bride and whomever is walking her down the aisle. If Dad has a line in the ceremony, make sure to go over the cues with him. You’re the last person a bride see’s before she takes the most important steps in her life. If she’s genuinely smiling and radiating for the cameras, you’ve done well.
What to say before and during the Ceremony?
Before I leave the bride to cue up the DJ and head to the archway, I say this: “Do you have any questions? You look absolutely amazing, it’s a beautiful sunny day ( it’s not raining or if it is, you’ve got the beach all to yourself), everything’s going your way. It’s going to be fun. I’ll see you at the altar.” After the bridesmaids walk and the flower girl appears on the sand, announce “Please rise for the Bride.”
Before you begin, ask the guests to be seated. The ceremony itself is usually influenced by the bride and groom. I go over this in advance and e-mail them a preview based on their preferences.
If you’ve never written a beach wedding ceremony, The Ocean as my Witness will help you master your craft. The ceremonies are designed to mix and match and help you customize a ceremony that’s best for the wedding you’ll be officiating. Beach ceremonies should be simple. An intro, the vows, a ring exchange, and a conclusion are all you really need. I’ve never had guests complain the ceremony was too short. A long-winded affair impresses no one. Microphones are usually not permitted on the beach so you’ll need to project your voice. It’s an art to tunnel your voice between the bride and groom so the back row can hear but the wedding couple doesn’t feel like you are shouting at them.
What should Officiants wear to a Beach Wedding?
The best Officiants consult with the bride on what to wear. I always ask what the groom and groomsmen will be wearing so I can blend in better with the pictures. From the moment you hit the beach, your attire is your first impression. It’s hard to command respect from total strangers if you don’t look like you’re in charge. Err on the side of caution and overdress. As a rule, if the groom is wearing a tie then I do as well. However, it is vital to be comfortable and cool. No one wants to see the minister sweating. If it’s a nice day, I wear a full suit but use a stylish vest instead of a jacket. It’s good to have suits in khaki, white, navy blue, gray and black. My signature look (see above) is either bare feet or flipflops in the summer.
You will be in photos and videos taken by professionals and guests. Being punctual and well dressed will gain trust and
help cover up mistakes. There’s one photo you NEVER want to be in. That’s the first kiss. After saying “You may now kiss the Bride”, get out of the photographer’s way. I take a lot of pride in working with the photographers. During the ring exchange and vow exchange I utilize my patented Rox Slide Step. It’s a smooth step to the side and a repositioning about six feet behind the bride. I’m facing the groom so he can read my lips while still looking directly at the bride. The photo and video team get a clear lane to get pictures with nothing in the backdrop except the bride, groom, and the ocean. I’ll make eye contact with the paparazzi so I know they’ve had time to get the perfect shot. After the kiss, there may be a first dance on the beach. If not go right into the recessional with a spirited announcement. I wait until after the bridal party exits to make my way down the aisle. Congratulating the parents in the front row is a nice gesture on your way out. Then I meet the bride and groom one last time to tie up any loose ends and bid our farewells.
My binder is off white. It contains two pens, tissues, and a band-aid. I replaced the inside back cover with a nice mirror
(brides love it!) I use clear and heavy page protectors. These keep my ceremony dry in the rain and keep the pages from flopping around in the wind. I keep an order of ceremony sheet with the bride and groom’s contact information,
a description of what they’re wearing, their musical selections, and notes regarding the venue and vendors. I often have several weddings a day, so I keep stamps and return address labels for the marriage licenses.